The Type Of domme i am & the men i want to work with

It has taken me over a year to understand the type of domme I wanted to be.

I don’t care to whip men or even sexualize myself to their kinks.

I just want to show up as myself and have men who want to worship, spend, and serve me show up as their true selves.

One of the most common interactions I have had with men in my 30s is them being an open book with me from Day 1.

That doesn’t always mean they are honest; it just means for whatever reason, they feel comfortable sharing parts of their story they normally wouldn’t share with others with me.

That can range from telling me what they secretly desire from women that their girlfriends or wives won’t do, crying real tears after knowing me for a couple of days, telling me their childhood traumas, expressing their desires to have multiple lovers while being partnered, and their wives have no clue, and other things.

I am a person who pushes for honesty, truth, and authenticity. I enjoy when people are themselves and can be honest in who they are.

What I have learned from the kink and bdsm community is that it is a safe space for people to be themselves.

In the domme space, I have seen it to be a safe space for men to express a side of themselves that society aka the patriarchy, would normally shun.

To be a man that actually enjoys serving women aka being a submissive, or loves being told what to do by a woman, has been looked down upon, youre not seen as man enough.

Expressing your emotions, your true sexuality aka if youre also attracted to men or want to explore that, is shut down.

So what do some men do? They lie and try to find a way to express who they truly are to those who are willing to see their truth and not turn them away or shame them.

I have also learned over the years that I am a mirror for people. Whether people want to be honest or not, the truth of people always ends up revealing itself to me.

I am a Reflector in Human Design, which is very rare.

I allow people to experience themselves the good and the bad and again people generally feel pretty emotionally safe with me.

Basically, I’m a walking safe space lol.

I would love to see a world where men are more honest with themselves and the people around them, ESPECIALLY WOMEN.

Where they can express their emotions, like sadness, fear, and any other emotions that is not seen as “man enough”.

Where, if they have noticed they are actually non-monogamous and desire multiple women, they express that to their partners, vs sneaking and lying and putting their partner’s life at risk.

Where men can live in their actual truth.

Where, if you have a secret kink for feet you can tell your wife this as well, even if she is not the one engaging your foot fetish.

I want to work with men who want to be honest with themselves and the people around them.

That may start with me , you being honest with me about who you are.

Sharing the parts of yourself you normally wouldn’t share.

As we develop our Goddess/ masculine relationship, I can help you begin to show up as your authentic self in the world, so you don't have to hide anymore.

That could look like finally being honest with your wife about desiring multiple partners.

That could look like really diving into your childhood traumas, getting a therapist, and being able to find out the truths of who you actually are vs the lies you have been hiding from yourself.

That could look like actually exploring your attraction to men vs being in denial about it AND telling a loved one in your life your truth.

That could look like telling your girlfriend you love to wear women’s clothing.

That could look like telling your partner you enjoy being a submissive and serving women, or one of your biggest turn-ons is sending pretty women money.

It can range from so many things; the point is honesty, truth, and authenticity. When I say you don’t need a girlfriend, you need a Goddess. This is what I mean lol. I should probably say you just simply need a Goddess in your life, regardless of your relationship status. But men who would like the guidance of a Goddess, whose heart and ears are open to my guidance, who desire to live in their truth, even if it just starts with me, that is who I would like to work with.

If this is you, start worshipping by sending me money, a gift, and putting in an application.